The First & Most Basic Step To Becoming Successful With Women

The first step to becoming successful with women is this:
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime -- anywhere.
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step you MUST simply master.
And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally talk to anyone AS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll subconsciously be improving your social conversational skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more COMFORTABLE talking to people.
That's it.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment.
Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start is with the guys - especially the guys who are already great with the ladies.
Use them as practice.
Seriously.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think you'll be better off with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well.
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the success that you want with women at the moment.

You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then you can start moving forward and try talking to girls instead.
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily basis.
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY, by the very end of the month, your conversational skills would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!
The next key step here is for you to go out and TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you like?
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around with any girl you choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes to talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a woman -- a beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accomodating, friendly & 'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way that most 'alpha males' should be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project the vibe that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
For examples on how to be indifferent, You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be too afraid in trying something funny or something cool especially if its with a beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you did?
But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at all!
It's just your mind playing silly 'ol tricks on ya, that's it.
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your face trying, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines that she's so accustomed to all along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff...
Get it?
Think about it -- then go out and DO it.
You'll SEE the difference right away.
And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)

10 Tips To Get Over Your Ex As Quickly As Possible

Make a clean break. As tempting as it can be, if you are still in love with your EX, and they don't reciprocate the feelings and intensity, then you're better off making a clean break. This is true every time. Ex lover rarely make good friends after a break up.

Delete all telephone numbers, email address and the like that contain your ex’s details. Keeping temptation at bay is vital.

Clear out as many personal items as you can. Obviously keeping practical stuff is important, but, if you’re using your ex’s left behind items to remember them, then that’s no good. Clear them out as soon as possible.

Treat yourself. Make sure you get used to enjoying yourself without your ex partner. Prove to yourself, your ex and others that you can smile again in spite of the circumstances. A divorce doesn’t mean you can’t laugh a lot.

Let your frustrations, anger and bitterness come out. Write down your feeling or get some counseling. Even if it’s just a friend who will listen to you for a while. Blow off steam – it’s natural.

Cleanse your current situation by buying new things for the house. New bedding and kitchen utensils are something you use every day. Get new items. Your life is still going to go on so distance yourself from the things you used with your ex. It will work wonders for you.

Give yourself time to heal. You don’t need to rush into a new relationship until your ready. Advice given to me as I was going through my divorce was to ‘clear the decks emotionally.’ Superb advice, you don’t need to rebound till its right for you.

Eliminate any negative self-talk. It’s easy to feel sorry for yourself after a break up. It can help you only for a very short while at the beginning. If you keep talking yourself down then you’ll find it harder to move on when the time is right for you.

Take charge of your life again. Make goals. Set yourself challenges. Maybe you always wanted to abseil or jump from a plane. Maybe learning yoga could be right for you. The world is your oyster.

Take comfort in the fact that it does get better each day. Say to yourself ‘every day in every way I’m getting better and better and better.’ It’s true and most people who have been divorced will tell you that suddenly one day you realize that the rest of your life can easily be the best of your life.

Dating Strategies and Tactics

To find a long term relationship, you must go after it. It probably isn't going to fall into your lap.

Here are some tips to improve your success.

1. You have to go after the one you want and then win them over. Be a friend - show attention, understanding, acceptance, and appreciation.

2. Satisfy emotional needs- show interest and listen to them. Spark a romantic emotion. Romance is a combination of hope with some doubt and it adds up to passion. People want
what they can't have.

3. The third part of love is respect. It is earned through your actions. You must show an independent and confident personality. You can live with them or without them. You are in no hurry and aren't desperate.

4. You really have to date several people at once. It will make you look like a great catch. When you have multiple options, anyone who wants to be with you will work much harder. Instead of you doing the chasing, they will be chasing you. This takes the pressure off of yourself. You really want to date a few people anyway before jumping from one long term relationship to another.

Dating Strategies to keep in mind:

You must be happy with yourself before you will have success. Be kind to yourself and turn off the negative thoughts. You can change what you can and forget the rest. Don't worry about things you can't change. If you can't change them, all the worry in the world wont do any good.

Set some goals and write them down. You must make a plan with a clear path you want to follow.

You must set aside a night each week to get out of the house. Go where others gather. Check the paper for ideas and get out there. How many people have you met at your house? Force yourself to go out anyway. It is only one night a week, you can still sit on the couch the other six nights. You aren't going to find new people unless you actually go out.

There are single and available people all over the place. Nearly every place you go, has single people if you LOOK. Start simple don't go after the hottest person(too much pressure). Talk to the average person, get a phone number and move on. It really is a simple two step process. Meet and greet, a short conversation with eye contact and then say Great meeting you, but I have got to run; could I get your number? The Key is to RELAX. The more you do this the easier it gets.

Take the initiative and be the first to show interest in them. It shows confidence. You are only trying to get that first date. Don't start fretting about your wedding and future children just yet. Keep it simple. But you must do it yourself, no one will do it for you. Don't let an opportunity pass by, get that phone number and go from there.

Rejection is part of the dating game. Don't take it personal, not everyone is going to want to date you. They may not be dating at all right now. You never know unless you ask. Don't be afraid of looking foolish, we all look foolish all the time. Use positive reactions in the face of rejection. You aren't worried if they say no. You asked and that is the most important thing. One more no means you
didn't waste your time and money on someone who isn't even interested. Plus you are just closer to finding the one who is interested. It is all practice and will make you a master at dating that much quicker.

Get out of the house and start looking tonight.

A Beginners Guide To Online Dating - 5 Great Tips!

Did you know that two out of five single people in the UK now use some kind of on line dating service? That's 40% of all singles! Unfortunately, the percentage of these people who actually find a real romance as a direct result of their site memberships is very low - probably less than 10%.

Why is this? Well, it's true that some sites are better than others; they have more traffic, they are better to navigate; they just 'work' whilst others just don't. But what really matters is how you use a site when you actually sign-up to one. Take my word for it, unless you take the five simple steps that I'm about to outline, you may as well do something more productive with your time than join a singles site. What I'm about to say may sound obvious and rather simplistic, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't bother doing the 'obvious'. So here goes...

1. Create A Great Profile. This is the most important aspect of your dating site experience. Don't just say 'Nice guy seeks nice girl for trips to the cinema' - how boring does that sound? Take the time to say something about yourself, your lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you're hoping to meet. And remember to sound happy, upbeat, fun and confident; if you're miserable about your recent breakup, then keep it to yourself! This isn't the time for modesty; if you think you're pretty darn attractive, then be sure to say so. And humors is a real ice-breaker - if you can make someone laugh, they'll be more likely to want to contact you.

2. Always Upload A Photo. Even if you don't have a very flattering one to hand, you should always post a picture with your profile. Remember, 95% of people on dating sites only search for other members who have bothered to provide a picture of them. You want to see what other potential partners look like so it stands to reason that other people will want to know what you look like too. If your photo isn't recent or isn't a great likeness of you, you can always say so in your profile.

3. Be Proactive. Don't just join a site and expect other people to contact you. Make sure you regularly search the database for people with whom you might be compatible and when you find someone you like the look or sound of, write to them immediately and tell them why you think you might be a good fit.

4. Write Great Emails. OK, you've joined a dating site, you've searched for other members who fall within your specified categories, and you've been presented with a page of matching profiles. You're eager to fire off a few emails...but what on earth do you say in them? Re-read the paragraph above about creating a great profile and apply the same rules to the first email that you send to another member. If it looks like you can't be bothered to say much or that you're sending the same one line message to several people, then they probably won’t bother to reply. Tell that person a little about who you are and why you think you might both be compatible - respond directly to what you've read in that person's profile - sound interested and interesting and you'll get an email by return – sound boring and downbeat and you'll just be ignored.

5. Check Back With The Site. There are two reasons why you should do this as often as possible. The most obvious one is to keep up to speed with who has joined since you last logged-on; that special someone might have signed-up since you last visited the site so don't miss out. However, what most people don't realize is that when you log-in to a dating site, your profile moves up the listings on the internal search engine which means that you are more likely to be spotted and subsequently contacted by other people. Don't be a stranger to the site you've joined and I recommending that you visit the site at least once a day during the lifetime of your membership.

So there you have it - 5 easy ways to make your chosen dating site work for YOU. Have fun and happy hunting!

Overcoming Fear of Rejection

Facing fears of rejection

I believe the best way to overcoming fear of rejection is knowing all of us at some stage have had a fear of rejection.

This is the first thing I believe in overcoming fear of rejection. That is knowing we are all so human that all of us feel vulnerable at times.

We keep going back, stronger, not weaker, because we will not allow rejection to beat us down. It will only strengthen our resolve. To be successful there is no other way. - Earl G. Graves

So let me ask you a question - if your purpose in Flirting is to make someone else feel good, can you be rejected? At the very worse, you may have not succeeded, but you cannot feel rejected if that is your purpose?

My strongest belief is no-one has the power to decide if we are rejected, only we can make that decision.

The second aspect is there are a lot of people who have acquired defense mechanisms, their own way to avoid feeling rejected or feeling hurt.

Defense Mechanisms

If someone chooses to avoid us, to ignore us or even be rude to us, chances are they exhibit the same behaviour to others. If that is the case, how can we feel rejected?

Dear to us are those who love us. . . but dearer are those who reject us as unworthy, for they add another life; they build a heaven before us whereof we had not dreamed, and thereby supply to us new powers out of the recesses of the spirit. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

But what if I really really like that sexy guy or girl? I hear you ask.

This brings us to the third aspect. Sometimes we just cannot control how others will react or make decisions about us.

Deciding not to be rejected

If you do feel rejected by a decision made by another person, promise me one thing.

Promise me you will focus on controlling how you feel and not focus on the other person.

I feel it is only ourselves who choose to feel rejected rather than others rejecting us. I have no doubt you have not felt rejected when someone looked past you or ignored you in the past. Its just you did not care as much. The emotional intensity was just not there.

One of the big factors is the emotional intensity involved. Now we have to lower that emotional intensity. So how do we do that?

We can start by listing the reasons we are a good friend, a good lover, a good mum or dad, or daughter or son.

If you are rejected by someone, who are they to make a decision on your behalf?, it is only you who makes the decision on being rejected.

The following I believe is a very good article on rejection by Tony Robbins my favourite coach in the world. I think it's very worthwhile.

Overcoming fear of rejection summary

To summarise, overcoming fear of rejection is as follows:

1. All of us have had fear of rejection

2. People's defense mechanism to avoid rejection can be to reject us first.

3. Focus on you making the decision not to be rejected. After all it's not their decision.

Hope this helps

Flirting tips for shy girls

One of the best flirting tips for shy girls is to understand you are not the only one.

Let me ask you a question. If you were at a party feeling shy and maybe a little awkward, would you want someone to approach you to feel comfortable?

Do you think other people that read this would answer yes as well?

Point is they would like to be talking with someone like you, so you are not the only one. In fact every person feels like that at some point in time.

So firstly, you are not the only one.

Secondly don't apologise for who you are. What I mean by this is don't feel like you don't deserve to mix company with anyone, period.

A part of flirting women is about feeling good about yourself

The following are some 'quick reference' flirting tips for shy girls.

Feel good about yourself - Don't feel as though you need to satisfy rules in your mind to feel good e.g if I can do this or hang out with such and such THEN I will be happy. Start to feel good now for how special you are.

Guys are attracted to shy girls - Guys find shy girls very attractive. That you can take my word for. Be confident you have an advantage.

Practice eye contact - Shy girls I have coached definitely benefit and get results when they start making eye contact.

Smile at guys - Start to test yourself to get 5 smiles back from guys each day. Does not matter which guys, it can be a waiter, teacher or friend.

No-one is always shy - I believe we are all confident when we feel comfortable enough. It can be with friends or family or playing your favourite computer game.

Don't give yourself the identity you are shy. We are all different in different circumstances, sometimes maybe shy, sometimes maybe a little crazy.

If you focus on when you are most confident, rather than thinking shy, you will be more likely to act that way.

Of course it will become so much easier each time you make eye contact and smile at guys.

Stick with it, even if it feels uncomfortable at first, and good luck!

How to Know a Guy Is Flirting

• Watch for eye contact. Normally, this starts out from across a room or a park or wherever you two may happen to be. If he holds your attention for more than a brief, accidental moment, it’s a fair guess that he’s flirting. The telltale sign is if the eye contact is followed by a smile

• Listen for him to pay you compliments. If he compliments your shoes or your hair, that’s a good sign that he's flirting. Those aren’t normal topics that men compliment others on, and this is a signal that he is paying closer attention to you than he does most other people.

• See if his attention is focused on you. If he ignores everyone else in the room just for your attention, that’s a sign he is knee-deep in flirting. If his head is on a swivel looking for his friends or checking out other people, chances are he isn’t flirting.

• Notice small touches as a sign. If he briefly puts his hand on yours when you tell a funny story or puts a hand on your shoulder when he asks if you want another drink, he is probably flirting with you.

• Think about whether he is paying extra attention to you specifically. If he’s asking personal questions and wanting more information about you, he is probably seeking a deeper connection and subsequently flirting.

3 Hot Ways To Flirt For Teens

Teenagers tend to get away with more things compared to their adult counterparts. This notion extends to flirting tips for teenagers as well. Today’s generation is not only more daring, it also has more freedom of expression to boot.

Flirting tips for teenagers are also more experimental. This is actually a good thing because in the process, teenagers sort of figure out what their flirting style is. If you’re just beginning to experiment yourself, here are a few tips which might help you out.

Flirting Tips for Teenagers # 1: Mirroring Actions

This does not mean you have to play Simon Says with your date. Mirroring every action can be downright creepy. Besides, the key here is to not let your target know you’re copying his or her moves on purpose.

When your date laughs, laugh along. When your date smiles at you, you should definitely smile back. Make it subtle and don’t make obvious movements that would make him or her suspect your actions.

Flirting Tips for Teenagers # 2: Playing With Jewelry

Teenage girls are lucky to have accessories on their side. If you’re the kind of girl who wears necklaces and earrings, you can play with them while talking to a boy you’re interested in.

For example, you can pull your necklace once in a while or twirl it with your fingers. There’s something so sweet and flirtatious about this move that you can’t go wrong with it.

Flirting Tips for Teenagers # 3: Vested Interest

If you’re interested in someone, make sure to engage that person in an interesting conversation. Ask a lot of open-ended questions that focus on his or her likes and interests. People love to talk about themselves, so this strategy can keep the conversation alive. You not only get to know the person better, you also have more ammunition for future conversations as well.

These flirting tips for teenagers are actually pretty easy to pull off. You don’t necessarily have to let the person you like know that you’re attracted to him or her. Play everything cool and don’t forget to have fun. You’re still young so don’t take life too seriously.

How To Flirt With a Woman

Flirting is an art. Not everyone can do it the right way, though all of them try! Women are not as flirtatious as men. So if you are thinking that a cute chick will come upto you and say, "Hey, you are cute. Want to have coffee with me?", I am sorry to disappoint you, as the chances are very slim. A vast majority of men like it when women simply respond a bit when they flirt. They do not expect you to flirt back. It is important that you understand that flirting is all about interest, and a man should never flirt with a woman that he doesn't want to get to know a little more. We bring you some tried and tested tips for flirting with girls. Flirting with women should be done with much caution. You wouldn't want to send wrong signals and reach home with more than just a broken heart! Read on to know more about how to flirt with a woman.

• Grab the Chance

Next time you see that gorgeous woman in the party standing at a corner, don't shy away. Nothing will happen if you sit back, and wait for someone to flirt with you. Grab the chance. A little flirting never hurt anyone

• Show Genuine Interest

Pay genuine attention to her. Nothing compares with showing genuine interest in a woman and believe me you will not be disappointed. Not only would she be reciprocating, you may also get a chance to ask her out!

• Flatter by all Means

A great way to get a woman to show interest in you is by compliments that are flattering to her. A little bit of flattering is not going to harm you in any way! But make it a point that it is genuine. Flatter her by simply saying how gorgeous she looks and not by comparing her with stars, moon and other galactic objects! Women can easily detect if a compliment is fake and you wouldn't want to hear negative remark instead of a generous "Thank You"!

• Have Fun

Don't be tensed. Just relax and have fun. After all, flirting is about having fun. It is easier to get her to roll along if you have fun. Don't get too carried away by the whole issue of flirting. Just keep it real and light. You are flirting with a woman, not trying to hunt down terrorists!

Tips on Flirting

Flirting has always remained essentially a man's territory for ages. But off late, we see women taking the lead too and for the better! The art of flirting does not come flawlessly to everyone, though it is not very difficult to master it. We bring you flirting ideas that are sure to get you started with flirting if not on the top! However there are certain things that are to be kept in mind while treading on this unfamiliar territory. Go through these tips for flirting that have been compiled after much thinking and efforts.

• While flirting with someone for the first time, do not make any sexual advances.
• Eye contact is very essential. It shows that you are confident about yourself.
• Be dressed smartly and please be clean. No one likes shabby people, unless you want shabby people around you.
• Smile, it is essential to break the ice and make the atmosphere easy going. It also improves your face value if done the right way.
• Respect the other person. Do not force anyone to mingle with you and be aggressive. No one is obliged to you.
• Make sure you sound genuine enough while flirting or else it will look artificial and you may end up making a fool of yourself.

When to Say I Love You

Now that you have decided how you are going to propose, just think if it is the right time to say I love you. Some people get carried away by emotions and often confuse love with infatuation and such similar feelings. Read on to know when to propose your love and when to say I love so that it sounds genuine and serious.

• Always propose when you feel you are ready to take a person in your life. Do some introspection and come to a sane conclusion.
• Give your relation some time to grow. You will get an idea as to where is it headed and take a decision according to the situation.
• Make sure the other person is interested in having a life-long relation with you. Keep dropping hints now and then to see the response and then move forward with it.
• The proposal is just a formality. Make sure you ask your beloved about marriage on a much serious level before you actually pop up the proposal.
• Make sure your beloved is in a good mood. Else, the possible "Yes" may turn into a cold "No".

Ideas for Romantic Proposal

You like her, she likes you. You both absolutely love spending time in each other's company. You have asked him/her out on a date and it is time to take this relationship a step further. Yes, we are talking about a romantic proposal for the one who's very thought brings a smile to your face. The least we can do is give you romantic proposal ideas. We bring you the top 10 ideas for a romantic proposal. Yes, you can stop thanking us and proceed to get some ideas for your special someone.

• This Valentine's Day make your date special by giving your beloved the best gift of all. Get that ring from the jeweler and pop it up with your question while dining or just when the sun is going down. It is the best gift anyone could give to a loved one. Of course it is difficult to live upto this gift every year!
• Have your proposal aired on the radio on your beloved's favorite station. Make sure he/she is listening to the station at that time. It is sure to bowl him/her over. It is original and not many have tried this idea yet.
• Another way of proposing is to hire a glider and get your message written on the sky against the blue backdrop, only if you can afford it. Intercom him/her when you are about to get the message written. Rest assured the answer is going to be a "Yes". Just pray for a safe landing though!
• Record a personal home video of the moments you spent together. You can also include nicknames you use for each other. Get your friends to re-enact these moments. In the end, the video shows you, proposing your love to your cherished one. Get it delivered to your beloved through a friend along with a bouquet of roses. It sure to win your beloved's heart and there is no way one can reject such a cute proposal.
• Another great idea for a proposal is to express your love on the big screen. Make a plan for a movie and pre-plan with the manager of the theater to have your proposal aired on the screen just before the movie begins. The always-energetic crowd will be your confidence booster and is sure to get a positive reply for your proposal.
• Another great idea to propose is on your beloved's birthday. It will make that day so special that it will be etched in his/her memory forever. You can take him/her for dinner and propose when it is just the two of you, or you can do it in front of his/her family and friends.
• A unique idea is to gift your beloved a jigsaw puzzle. Make sure you take out one piece from the puzzle beforehand. Ask him/her to solve the puzzle. When he/she realizes one piece is missing, take that piece out from your pocket in which it is written, "Marry me because you complete me". It is a beautiful way to show your beloved how much he/she means to you.
• Proposing while taking a walk in a romantic atmosphere like by the sea-shore, a secluded park or near a historical monument is also a good idea. It is simple, unexpected and is sure to win over your love. Make sure the timing is either early morning or late evening, around twilight. It adds to the romance.
• Gift him/her a small book in which "Will you marry me" is written in different languages. The english version can be at the end of the book. Another idea is to eliminate the page in which the english version is written. When they ask you what it means, propose!
• The last and the best way to propose is the traditional way. Go down on one knee, hold a single red rose on which the ring is tied with a ribbon and pop the question. Though old, this way is a sure winner and works every time.

How to Propose a Guy

It is the 21st century and women are as vocal as guys about their feelings. Though proposing has always been a man's job, it is not at all wrong for a woman to take the lead. Somebody has to do it someday. But since not many women are acquainted with the finer aspects of proposing a guy, we bring you some ideas for proposal to a guy. This shall ease your tension and solve the dilemma of how to propose to a guy. So read on about some tried and tested ways of proposing a guy.

• Guys can be highly emotional and tend to feel vulnerable in overwhelming emotional situations. So make sure you both are in a place that is not too crowded. The idea of proposing your guy in the middle of a game is not very ideal!
• Make it memorable. A guy loves to be wooed as much as girls do. So propose in the most enjoyable way making the whole moment memorable. Propose in a place that means a lot to him. Maybe a neighborhood park where he grew up chasing squirrels, or the place where you went for your first date, all are special to him and can be made memorable by proposing him there.
• Not only girls, even guys love to receive flowers. So this Valentine's Day, send him a big bouquet of roses and card in which it is written," Will you marry me?"
• However you do it, do not show desperation. Guys are not too enthusiastic about marriage and can run faster than a cheetah at the very mention of commitment. Make it steady and don't be too pushy about it and make sure he is comfortable.
• Make the proposal utterly romantic. Invite him to a bar that is not too crowded or take a corner seat. Slip on that sexy black dress, let down your curls and make sure you look stunning. Order a nice drink and propose him while he takes that last sip. Just make sure he doesn't choke on it!

How to Propose a Girl

A girl is nature's most wonderful creation. She can love like there is no tomorrow and hate like you wish you would die. She can be a protector, a healer a creator and a destroyer. For proposing a girl, certain things have to be kept in mind. It is a bit tricky but not impossible. We bring you some ideas for proposal to a girl. Following tips shall give you ideas of how to propose a girl.

* Do your homework. Get to know your girl well, before you pop the question. Get to know her interests, her dislikes, and her general nature that will help you plan your proposal in a better way. If she is shy and an introvert, propose when you two are alone. If she is sporty and loves adventure, then take her for rock climbing and propose when you reach the top.
* All girls love flowers. So get a huge bouquet of roses and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Tell her you would like to spend the rest of your life with her or alone. Be ready to be smothered by a genuinely happy woman's hug!
* Appreciate her for what she is. Tell her "you look beautiful" when she does not have any make up on. Tell her she looks amazing when she is having a bad day and mean it. She will love you for it and will readily agree when you propose. Just don't overdo it, as it may look fake.
* Girls love to be pampered so when you intend to propose, make sure you are chivalrous enough to make her feel special and at the same time not look vulnerable. Women want a strong man, not a wimp.
* Don't force her to say yes. The worst you can do is to push her around and threaten her dignity. Tell her to take her time and that you shall wait. Be a gentleman and respect her. Incase she doesn't want a relationship, she will let you know of it then and there.

Flirting Tips

Flirting Tips

Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.

#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'

#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)

#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'

#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.

#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.

#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.

#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.

#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.

#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!

Definitions of love

• A strong positive emotion of regard and affection; "his love for his work"; "children need a lot of love"
• Any object of warm affection or devotion; "the theater was her first love"; "he has a passion for cock fighting"
• Have a great affection or liking for; "I love French food"; "She loves her boss and works hard for him"
• Beloved: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment
• Get pleasure from; "I love cooking"
• A deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction; "their love left them indifferent to their surroundings"; "she was his first love"
• Be enamored or in love with; "She loves her husband deeply"
• A score of zero in tennis or squash; "it was 40 love"
• Sleep together: have sexual intercourse with; "This student sleeps with everyone in her dorm"; "Adam knew Eve"; "Were you ever intimate with this man?"
• Sexual love: sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people; "his lovemaking disgusted her"; "he hadn't had any love in months"; "he has a very complicated love life"