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Friday, April 16, 2010
Popular Online Dating Activities for Men
Heads up, gents. Online dating can open up new doors of opportunities with a little help from real world dating tips that work. Spice up your matchmaking with some of these ideas.
Looks Count
Comment on how attractive she is. Yes, women do want to know they are pretty, even if they’re online and you can’t see them and have no idea. So in your communications, ask questions that would help you know, but in an unobtrusive way like – how do you wear your hair? And then say how attractive that must look.
Kindness Counts
Point out nice things or the lemonade in life – nice things the other person has mentioned, nice acts the person has done, good things on the news latterly, etc. Be upbeat, and forget those lemons in life. Even in email a person can shout, by using all capital letters. So show manners and kindness. Keep swearing, unkind remarks, prejudice, etc. out of your communications. And “do unto others….”
So add some helpful real-world tips that do work (a lot of the time anyway) into your online dating equations. And come up on the positive side of romance – and enjoy more lemonade!
Sunday, August 9, 2009
The First & Most Basic Step To Becoming Successful With Women
The first step to becoming successful with women is this:
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime -- anywhere.
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step you MUST simply master.
And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally talk to anyone AS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll subconsciously be improving your social conversational skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more COMFORTABLE talking to people.
That's it.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment.
Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start is with the guys - especially the guys who are already great with the ladies.
Use them as practice.
Seriously.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think you'll be better off with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well.
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the success that you want with women at the moment.
You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then you can start moving forward and try talking to girls instead.
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily basis.
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY, by the very end of the month, your conversational skills would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!
The next key step here is for you to go out and TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you like?
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around with any girl you choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes to talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a woman -- a beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accomodating, friendly & 'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way that most 'alpha males' should be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project the vibe that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
For examples on how to be indifferent, You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be too afraid in trying something funny or something cool especially if its with a beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you did?
But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at all!
It's just your mind playing silly 'ol tricks on ya, that's it.
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your face trying, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines that she's so accustomed to all along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff...
Get it?
Think about it -- then go out and DO it.
You'll SEE the difference right away.
And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime -- anywhere.
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step you MUST simply master.
And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally talk to anyone AS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll subconsciously be improving your social conversational skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more COMFORTABLE talking to people.
That's it.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment.
Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start is with the guys - especially the guys who are already great with the ladies.
Use them as practice.
Seriously.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think you'll be better off with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well.
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the success that you want with women at the moment.
You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then you can start moving forward and try talking to girls instead.
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily basis.
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY, by the very end of the month, your conversational skills would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!
The next key step here is for you to go out and TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you like?
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around with any girl you choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes to talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a woman -- a beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accomodating, friendly & 'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way that most 'alpha males' should be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project the vibe that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
For examples on how to be indifferent, You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be too afraid in trying something funny or something cool especially if its with a beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you did?
But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at all!
It's just your mind playing silly 'ol tricks on ya, that's it.
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your face trying, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines that she's so accustomed to all along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff...
Get it?
Think about it -- then go out and DO it.
You'll SEE the difference right away.
And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)
Saturday, August 8, 2009
10 Tips To Get Over Your Ex As Quickly As Possible
Make a clean break. As tempting as it can be, if you are still in love with your EX, and they don't reciprocate the feelings and intensity, then you're better off making a clean break. This is true every time. Ex lover rarely make good friends after a break up.
Delete all telephone numbers, email address and the like that contain your ex’s details. Keeping temptation at bay is vital.
Clear out as many personal items as you can. Obviously keeping practical stuff is important, but, if you’re using your ex’s left behind items to remember them, then that’s no good. Clear them out as soon as possible.
Treat yourself. Make sure you get used to enjoying yourself without your ex partner. Prove to yourself, your ex and others that you can smile again in spite of the circumstances. A divorce doesn’t mean you can’t laugh a lot.
Let your frustrations, anger and bitterness come out. Write down your feeling or get some counseling. Even if it’s just a friend who will listen to you for a while. Blow off steam – it’s natural.
Cleanse your current situation by buying new things for the house. New bedding and kitchen utensils are something you use every day. Get new items. Your life is still going to go on so distance yourself from the things you used with your ex. It will work wonders for you.
Give yourself time to heal. You don’t need to rush into a new relationship until your ready. Advice given to me as I was going through my divorce was to ‘clear the decks emotionally.’ Superb advice, you don’t need to rebound till its right for you.
Eliminate any negative self-talk. It’s easy to feel sorry for yourself after a break up. It can help you only for a very short while at the beginning. If you keep talking yourself down then you’ll find it harder to move on when the time is right for you.
Take charge of your life again. Make goals. Set yourself challenges. Maybe you always wanted to abseil or jump from a plane. Maybe learning yoga could be right for you. The world is your oyster.
Take comfort in the fact that it does get better each day. Say to yourself ‘every day in every way I’m getting better and better and better.’ It’s true and most people who have been divorced will tell you that suddenly one day you realize that the rest of your life can easily be the best of your life.
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