Flirting tips for shy girls

One of the best flirting tips for shy girls is to understand you are not the only one.

Let me ask you a question. If you were at a party feeling shy and maybe a little awkward, would you want someone to approach you to feel comfortable?

Do you think other people that read this would answer yes as well?

Point is they would like to be talking with someone like you, so you are not the only one. In fact every person feels like that at some point in time.

So firstly, you are not the only one.

Secondly don't apologise for who you are. What I mean by this is don't feel like you don't deserve to mix company with anyone, period.

A part of flirting women is about feeling good about yourself

The following are some 'quick reference' flirting tips for shy girls.

Feel good about yourself - Don't feel as though you need to satisfy rules in your mind to feel good e.g if I can do this or hang out with such and such THEN I will be happy. Start to feel good now for how special you are.

Guys are attracted to shy girls - Guys find shy girls very attractive. That you can take my word for. Be confident you have an advantage.

Practice eye contact - Shy girls I have coached definitely benefit and get results when they start making eye contact.

Smile at guys - Start to test yourself to get 5 smiles back from guys each day. Does not matter which guys, it can be a waiter, teacher or friend.

No-one is always shy - I believe we are all confident when we feel comfortable enough. It can be with friends or family or playing your favourite computer game.

Don't give yourself the identity you are shy. We are all different in different circumstances, sometimes maybe shy, sometimes maybe a little crazy.

If you focus on when you are most confident, rather than thinking shy, you will be more likely to act that way.

Of course it will become so much easier each time you make eye contact and smile at guys.

Stick with it, even if it feels uncomfortable at first, and good luck!